Ok, so after reading the bulk of DR so far, I have decided that I need to go LRT as we are separated physically.. Being such early days (8 weeks today), and full implementation only occurring in the last week or so (moreso NC rather than LC than anything else.. Other 180's have been followed for the last 4-6 weeks) I'm kind of seeing changes in her but not really, and am busy working on myself the best I can (GAL, IC etc)..

Now, here is a bit of a conundrum.. The W mentioned a while ago that she wanted some better looking headlight globes in her car (not a huge thing I know).. I have already purchased them as I have a supplier to get them dirt cheap from..

Here is the issue.. The LRT says no gifts, but I was going to give them to her without needing to pay me back (the cash for them is nothing really) and I was going to install them as it is a fairly in depth job on the car in question..

Should I do this, or would it be against LRT??.. I'm looking at it as a improvement in safety for W and S6+8 whilst driving, but at the end of the day it is a gift, and giving 2-3 hours of my time..

Grrrr, I'm hating the confusion!!..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..