Yep. We can only work on our half. If our WAS's choose to reconcile, they will have a ton of work to do, too. We will surely have a long way to go, too, but I think we would all be in a better place to walk the path. If they don't, then our next lucky spouses (God willing) will get a much better version of us.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23