Its good you are able to realize where you may have gone wrong in in your M. Just remember it fell apart because of actions, or inaction from the two of you. So do not beat yourself up!

Keep up the good PMA and GAL!

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16