So it seems so many of us are realizing we are reactive communicators and that we spin big time after mind reading and negative thinking. So, our journey continues...
I absolutely love and need to know that others are in a similar situation as I am. It's comforting and makes me feel like less of a freak. Thanks for making me feel normal with my reactivity and negative mind reading! Now, let this thread be the end of it for all of us!
BTW, The book How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It is a helpful and fascinating read. So much of its points ring true and I'm ashamed to admit that the NUMBER ONE WORST THING a woman can do to a man is shame him and that is precisely why I am in this situation. Man, I did everything wrong. Let's hope there's an opportunity to redeem myself.
