Yeah,, I have had this exact same advice before as it relates to my ring.
Ok so I will wear it IF I want, will not leave it with a note for H.
I also feel like I'm spinning...
Off to GAL
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW