Great question. I am not moving out and neither will she. I am GALing and trying to just not be around her. My MIL is convinced that she just needs space, which I am giving her. So I plan to act somewhat like we are separated without moving out.
What confuses me is she is telling people including me that she wants to cut down on her travel. So that is where I wonder if she is trying to cut out the A. So my goal is to stay strong, be social and confident, travel more for work so I not around her. Effectively going as dark as possible while living in the same house.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed