Yes, she has made a decision, and she must live with the consequences of her decision.

She's probably created a WAW movie script that says she can have an A, D you, and then have everything paid for by you. You ARE cooperating with her, but you are living in the Real World, which of course is at odds with the movie she's creating. You certainly have no obligation to play along in the role she assigned you.

Big wakeup call coming for her!

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R