AND yesterday before H went to work he wanted me to listen to his call into work about working a double said he did not want me to wonder if he was at work,,,

Then he called from work after his reg shift was over and was into his double to let me know he was at work...

And then BAM I pull this all emotional "take my ring" crap today.

I may have really really messed up any progress we were making and onto of him learning about his friends death early this morning,,,

OMGoodness now the emotions are here, now what?

I may have picked the wrong moment to "put my foot down" or "put my foot in my mouth"

HELP

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW