All quit for the last 12 days. Today got the "hope all is well with you". I didn't know if I should answer?? 4 hours later I said "GREAT, got a big upgrade in my job 10 and a half months early" GF sent 4 long texts and the last was a call? because I was on my bike I didn't get them till all at once. I text back " call me". 30 seconds later I'm in the phone. We talked for 50+ minutes. I really did good, no talk of the future,and I LISTENED ALOT in the tone of GFs voice. She's been sick so it was easy to tell the difference. I just don't want to be someone to vent to. I was the one to end the call. We LAUGHED alot thru most of it. I brought up great times we had and so did GF. GF might of even brought up more.GF reiterated how moving out was for D12( has anxiety) She said it in a way that kinda left the door open to get back together. I wish there was more on dealing with an abused woman.I do think the NO CONTACT rule has its merit, but I don't want her to feel abandoned again.
ludicrous speed so we can go plaid. Some people have one of those days, I have one of those lives.
