still waiting

[Ahoy]

Eek! I guess I do have expectations, so maybe I'm not ready to invite him. I'm not ready to be rejected -- I think it will put me in a funk.

Also, when he asked for separation he said he needed space, so I feel like I'm pushing him if I were to invite him. I also told him that I wouldn't be initiating contact with him, since he was requesting space, but that I would welcome it if he initiated. So I guess I should stick to that?

It's been just over three months since BD. I don't know where he is in the MLC process, since he is not opening up to me. It's so hard to know what to do!