The advice I got is that if you can make the invitation with no expectations, and you'd be going anyway, then you can/should make the invitation.

I'm wary of the friend zone thing, too, but it's a difficult path to tread, because friendship is the path to connection.

Let us know how it goes!


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.