Newcomer living in Hell

[bravo61]

I would absolutely love to get feedback from WAS poised. And to answer an unspoken question, no the changes are for me. But they certainly don't have to be an either/or. That's part of my frustration w/W. She sees only 2 options: miserable marriage or freedom. I thought only the Sith deal in absolutes(yes a StAr Wars reference). Do WAS ever begin to remember good times on their own?

My 180s;
Affirming words
You ought to or should erased from my vocab
Replaced by what do u think or would you consider or what can I do to help
Active in kids lives-soccer practice,pick up from school, help with homework
No words spoken in anger to W or kids
Open to new experiences-food,biking,trying new beers/wine,expressing interest in travel
Rebuilding my relationship w/God and others I felt abandoned by
Being more positive smiling more