It is a beautiful day here, and I am SO tempted to invite H to join us for an outdoor music event. I miss doing things as a family. So far, I have been NC since the separation, except to respond to him regarding daughter, and to coordinate things for daughter and financials. I have accepted one invitation from him to join him and daughter for dinner, and one invitation to go for a walk with him. Both were friendly, but nothing more. I know he misses my friendship because he's said as much, but I don't want to be put in the friend category.

So I do feel that NC gets results, but at what point is it okay to invite H along to family things. I don't want to pressure him, and frankly I'm afraid of rejection. Should I just stay the course? Need some advice!

M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!