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Sorry - I wasn't being clear. What I meant was 180s to address what H identified as issues in our M. Many of the issues I can't address because there is no R. But one - listening - is something I am trying to work on. As I've said on other people's threads (SS?) I've never liked how reactive and defensive I can get in conversations (with all people not just H) - and it is a barrier to listening or rather hearing. I missed important clues that H was unhappy because of this. So this is an area I am working on...

But your point, Maybell, about just sitting with things is well taken…and quite a change for someone who is used being proactive and trying to drive things.