I think the text was appropriate. Don't beat yourself up for that.
Don't beat yourself up for asking about C, either. You were anxious about the tumor on top of the upset in the marriage. We can't be perfect all the time. You recovered promptly. Let it be and enjoy your day with your little one.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15