It's no fun but it's good he has an emotional response to you. I'm sorry I haven't been on top of your threads... Does labug visit you? Because I know on my thread, she'd say that him avoiding his feelings is his to work out. What's your task?
I'm starting to understand the idea of the marathon. Marriage is the long haul. You're in the "for worse" part right now. Let him do his thing (I *know* how hard that is) and keep up the good work on your thing. We're behind you!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15