If he's going to discuss it with ow, you cannot control that.
Email shows how things are better, in sense. It gives you time to response it gives you less emotional contact.
Me I find it works for me. Although I did fall for it slightly, explained on my thread, I think I've now learnt something. Next time I may be ready for his pa manipulations.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26