Shining- I didn't used to do girls trips ever. I always spent my time with family. But a little before and since BD I have gone on some ( sometimes with friends, sometimes my daughter) and found its a great time to unwind. Some are big trips and some are just a day or two.
No matter what happens with H and my M, I think I will keep those trips up.
What a special thing to do for your son- and for yourself! Can't wait to hear about it.

Ats that book sounds great- I'm going to have to look it up!

Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown