Reading DB and DR. Prior to getting info about DBing, I signed H and I up for a 4-day Christian marriage intensive retreat. 4 other couples will be attending. H agreed to go to this after bomb drop a few months ago and I think it's probably just so he can say he tried. He said he would attend if there were no expectations put upon him. I agreed asking that he simply be open to the experience. I am scared now because DB says not to talk about the R. Of course the R is the focus at the retreat. Has anyone attended one of these marriage intensives?
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18
