Well, yet again shopping was awesome. Spent way too much $. Two Pairs of shoe for the price of one. Bought another 50's dress, went to some ops shops bought 3 shirts and pants for $20. Shopped to nearly till 8pm. Drank coffee ate doughnuts and boy ad a huge day.
Oh dear but it seems like h asking for the show clothes was him setting me up, in one way I took his bait but his requests were vague and very much open to confusion.
He was asked for a list and what he gave was initially vague descriptions, hence i thought he asked for something he says he did not.
So my reply will be asking him to be more concise and stating his requested items have been dropped off. I forgot his main method of confusing people was to claim they didn't get his meaning thus making it easy for him to make you wrong and get into a circular discussion. Very pa.
By dropping his stuff off the conversation is completed, by my action. Does a happy dance, while I could have handled it slightly better, it shows I can push some change.
While I cannot make him communicate better I can stop the dance of misunderstandings. It's hard to explain, but inside myself I think I've had a big win. Now I just need to learn to make this a habit.
Last edited by Ggrass; 09/27/1401:02 AM.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
