WAW - no contact, now refuses therapy, file?

[AWAW]

Again, the detachment and GAL was huge but hitting the gym, reading/learning, 180 and NC was even bigger. Once she physically saw me fit, saw that I was confident and at ease with whatever would happen, and heard what I had learned about myself and our relationship and that I was going out and not moping like a sad needy baby she was suddenly interested again.

The truth is I was doing this all for me and she could tell it wasn't for her. This is very important, doing it for them is needy. Doing it for yourself is attractive. She could tell the difference because she's smart (even when fogged).

I'm okay with whatever happens at this point but hopefully it works out. Just learned a life lesson about not pursuing, stay cool, take care of myself first.