Well, today at kid pick up my wife said I smelled nice. Chalk up one for the DB score. :-) I also attended a professional training luncheon today and sat by a women who knows my wife. She said she's sorry about our situation. I thanked her, talked with her some, and told her this is not my finish line.
I did also let my wife not today that my attorney would be delivering any support I provide her to her attorney (we are in pre-temporary hearing land negotiation). At the end of that short conversation she replied "You mean you are not going to cooperate?". She seemed a bit nervous asking me that. I simply told her I'm following the advice of my attorney (which I did not tell her includes no alimony).
She may have to get a job. Which is not what I wanted for her, but she just may have to do that. We will see.
FD
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)