"Wow. Just wow. Obviously you two seem to completely miss what i'm trying to say."
No we didn't miss it. I think you should re-read what you wrote and see it from our perspective. We don't know you or your situation. We just respond to what you write.
In the beginning of the post you talk about infidelity which isn't your situation, then you talk about how you went to marriage counseling but didn't explain why you went and then you went on about wanting to save the marriage but wanting to focus on you. That sums it up.
We have no personal information on you whatsoever so we can't make any recommendations either way. If you look at our signature lines we've been at this for a long time helping others. And yes 25yearsmlc and I have both saved our M in case you're wondering.
I went back to read the original post and see all the "emotions poured out" and all that I "missed".
I could not find the following statement anywhere "I feel......". So I don't know what feelings were "poured out" b/c I could not find any there.
Just a lot of what went on in your head and a ton of analysis on your part. And a very detached tone as well.
No, I really don't know why you're so offended. You chose two of the shortest replies to focus on, you ignored every other post, including the long one I wrote.
There were a ton of questions asked, and you replied with another question for us...that is just a really unusual interaction. No one is "prying". We are trying to help you, for which we get no pay. I mean, you do know this is volunteer work, right? What's with all the anger and personal attacks? That rarely happens here.
I'm unclear as to what you want from people here.
So what would "support" from us look like to you?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
