I really love her I'm just not sure I ever showed her in the right way. The 5 love languages might be worth checking.
My 1st IC session is next week. These insecurities have done too much damage and I want them gone.
Plenty of complaints she would make but not all of them fair. For example 'you never do the laundry but whenever I do she says I've done it wrong.
I think the main/core complaints she would have Would be: - that she thinks I don't care about her problems (because Im quiet and concentrate on the practical) - that I make everything about me (which I realise I do) - that I don't trust her (which I've never understood) - that we always do things my way and do what I want. (I felt like we either did what sge wanted or agreed a compromise but it seems like she felt it was better to avoid the argument) - that when im in a bad mood I tend to make little sarcastic and unpleasant comments (I do this but I've always tried to control I guess I didn't do a good enough job)
Actually looking at this list it makes me realise I must have been pretty horrible to be with.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
