keep up with your 180s and really work on GAL. I think in your sitch working on GAL could really help you. The way I read it, you are going out to that garage to talk to him, and be with him. Since I am a fellow Ohioan, I am going to guess that will change pretty soon. My guess is that sometime within the next month he will start coming inside to get warm!
I wish I could help you with the alcohol issue. I hope one of the vets on this board will come by and have good advice for you!
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15