Seeing that you have a child, do not leave the marital home for divorce/separation legal issues. Apart from that, reflect on what issues that your W has said and think deeper than just the words. Women are almost always emotional thinkers, attempting to talk logically to an emotional thinker does not work. The books are great, and so are the nuggets of wisdom forum, there should be 2 long threads and those are awesome.
Be careful to "push" her too much towards you (I love you, stuff like that). Let her make the big steps while you setup the small ones. One last thing, crying is normal. I would have to guess almost all people here have, many still do.
Good luck brother, stick to it.
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
