"Wow. Just wow. Obviously you two seem to completely miss what i'm trying to say."
No we didn't miss it. I think you should re-read what you wrote and see it from our perspective. We don't know you or your situation. We just respond to what you write.
In the beginning of the post you talk about infidelity which isn't your situation, then you talk about how you went to marriage counseling but didn't explain why you went and then you went on about wanting to save the marriage but wanting to focus on you. That sums it up.
We have no personal information on you whatsoever so we can't make any recommendations either way. If you look at our signature lines we've been at this for a long time helping others. And yes 25yearsmlc and I have both saved our M in case you're wondering.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
