Thanks. Writing this has really allowed me to see the right path. I need to move forward and focus 100% on me and my kids. I want no part of this M as it is today. She can have it. I feel for my kids, I really do, but I cannot live another day with someone who does not want me as her H. Her loss.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed