I ask sincerely, what's belittling about noting that I can't take her doing to me for a short period what I did for years? If anything, it acknowledges the past mistake.
This is part of learning to look at things form her POV. Empathy. Why say anything at all? What were you hoping for by saying that? One of the "rules" is, no relationship talk, no begging, pleading, etc.
Because of your past R with her, she probably hears everything you say jokingly as belittling. Yes, that may be mindreading but she is done, she is leaving.
Wish her well and work on what you can control.
Quote:
Sarcasm, eye-rolling and name-calling are currently her devices. I am an @$$. I know because I've been told so, recently, frequently. And not just when I've slipped DB'g.
She's not here wanting to change things.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
