All I can say to your story about last night is WOW, and good for you for making the effort! Does your H have a day job as a male porn star?
The only times I can "hold out" and I am talking a few more minutes, not hours, is when I have had a fair amount to drink, or when I have been MB with porn. There have been times when my W hasn't been stepping to the plate enough that I have myself and one of the issues with porn is that it creates unrealistic expectations, sometimes conscious sometimes not. So if I have been doing that, things that would have been exciting with my W can become less so. Not saying that is the issue with your H, but you might want to discuss it. If so, are you ready to commit to a more frequent schedule if he commits to staying away from MB?
Any other thoughts as to what it could be? I know some medications have that affect as well.
Again though, good for you for stepping up last night and this morning!
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
