Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

Hi all!

Well I love the 5 love languages, a must have book. I found out yes I am a man but physical touch is mine. Which is terrible for me because I miss that a lot with my wife. But I still have my kids and yes they get more hugs then ever now. And they love it.

I figure that the OM must be back in town because I haven't gotten a call in the last couple of days. Oh well.

Seen the SIL last night. Great conversation with her. She says that she misses me and her husband constantly brings me up(wife brother). I miss him a lot and am going to make it a goal to call him more and try to do stuff with him. He was one of my closes friends. She brought up the sich. Said its weird because the wife still has not brought OM around any of the family. Just the kids. And BIL walks away when ever OM gets brought up in conversation. Made me feel good.

Found because of the book that my wife is quality time. I think more with conversation. What are some great books on this. I think I've lost a lot of conversation skills. With my entire life, I spend most of my days at work in front of a computer. So I would really like to work on this.

Is there a way to work on this with the wife or not.