just for the record, I hav eread the 5 love languages, his needs her needs, love busters, fall in love-stay in love (still reading), and have divorce buster on the way.
I'm trying to jus tget out and od something at least once a week, but I don't want my wife feeling like I'm neglecting my daughter frown

my friend invited me for a guys weekend in october (out of town octoberfest) .... but the date sounded familiar. I checked with my wife and that is a weekend that we had planned to take our daughter to an "enchanted forest" .... she said I could go to the weekend get away if i wanted, it's up to me. but i told her I would rather go to the forest thing with my daughter because she is going to be pretty excited this year (she is almost 3).

I'm going out with a couple friends tonight and she is going to wine fest with her friends tomorrow evening. we are supposed to go as a family to a pumpkin farm activity place on sunday.

she has been sick the past few days and I'm trying not to be too clingy and offering, but I feel bad. she had a very sore throat and she didn't go to her kickboxing aerobic class, but I still took my daughter to the park as I usually do while she is at class. after , we went for ice cream and I brought my wife a shake and told her "I know this is against your current diet, but I thought it may help with your sore thoat." she seemed surprised and thankful and said thank you quickly. later I asked if she needed anything and she looked at me weird. I just said "even though we aren't getting along right now, doesn't mean I don't care" ....

it's REALLY hard for me to detach and I still break down crying ..... but I need to get away from her so she doesn't feel smothered. I'm just hoping one of these days she will realize that we CAN have an amazing marriage.

me-42
w-33
d-3
together-6
m-4yr
6/1/14-w check out
6/15/14-EA?
8/1/14-mc
9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing
9/15/14-w suggest separation
10/17/14 wife is done
12/13/2014 - wife move out
me file 1/1/15