Just a tip you might already know.
When feeling anger, pray 1st then talk to H 2nd.

I just did reverse,,,not the best. But I did apologize to H, cause I could have said what I said in a different way with a peaceful kind heart.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW