When I feel like this I should tap my mouth
Convo with H that started about s14 ended up with me telling H to stop blaming me for all the problems in his life, let him know he brought issues with him. Ended with if you are not happy then go be happy, I care about you so much that I want you to be happy and if that is not with me, then its not, but go be happy and stop blaming me for all your problems.

Truth Darts, or at least exactly how I feel!
Hope he heard me loud and clear!

What set me off,,,could have been
H talking about he has no social life cause he works all the time, then mention all the money he has to give me each month to pay our bills.
I said you have no social life is not my fault.
You work all the time cause you want to.
I pay half the bills in our home but don't blame H for that!
I did tell him I appreciate him helping with our bills and our son and I really want him to be happy, and THANKS for everything then gave him a quick hug


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW