Sorry to see you here Jim. it sounds like you really love your wife and put a lot of effort into trying to please her.
What things would she complain about you? I assume it's more then just insecurity.
Also, you should pick up "5 love languages" maybe you've just simply been communicating your love in the wrong ways. Consider seeing an IC for your emotional issues they really can help you to open up.
Me 28 W 27 T 10 M 2 No kids (fertility issues - mine) Bomb 7/20/2014 - EA Confirmed W moved out 9/15/14 W dating OM 11/22/14