That rejection thing? Yup, even though I was perfectly aware that stbxw could choose D, and that I was ready to accept that, and even though I was Mr. Sooper-Dooper detached (I kinda fooled myself a bit there), it slammed me hard when she finally made the decision.
And it still will creep up on me from time to time, though I know what UR said (which my stbxw verified in different words):
Quote:
He isnt rejecting you. He is hating himself. He cannot feel better. It is really sad.
But my ego still gets the better of me occasionally.
Look at that new merged list of yours... pretty sad he's willing to risk losing that, huh?
It's a process, it will get better, hang in there!
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
