I hope this doesn't come across as adversarial, however you are taking an interest now when that wasn't the case prior. I realize that is a 180 for you, however when the old R is done, some of what you are doing comes across as pursuit. I know you mentioned that you didn't like that detachment was promoted as you wanted to reattract your BF. I get that. However, pursuing won't be seen as attractive. I know you are working on somethings for yourself and that is exactly where your focus should be. You do understand why SD's mother would question your intentions after 8 years, correct (internet addiction aside).
Hope that makes sense. Hang in there! It gets better:-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
