H texted me this morning. SD's mom doesn't want her hanging out with me alone. She says I wasn't interested for 8 years so I can't now. Duh, Internet addiction, it wasn't personal.
H says he knows I'm genuine but he tried. I thanked him. I asked why we can't spend time together - him legit taking her but letting me come along now and then.
He says he needs time apart and living together makes it hard on him. I validated, told him I understood that was important to him.
FML. I hate this sitch.
BF:40 M:33 SD: 12 T: 8, never married, no kids together BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try". PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".