Thanks for checking in rp! Yeah, I have the desire to do something drastic like that every time this happens. I feel like I am living in someone else's pathological facade. Her parents know about this but think she is handling it responsibly. Her sister is worried, but says "you're both adults, you will come out of this fine no matter what happens". Her BFF tells me she is worried about and crying for my W, but then goes out and has fun with W and tells W about our conversations to make me look like the pursuer. BFF flat out asked me if I would ever "take the boys away from W". "You wouldn't do that would you?" As if IM the bad guy here, as if IM the one making rash decisions. As if IM neglecting the family. I told her that I resent even being asked that question.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together