Your wife's actions right now are just a symptom of the "underlying marriage issues" and THAT is what you need to be focusing on, NOT exactly what she is doing now.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction