Glad you are regrouping some Shining- you really are doing awesome!
That pain they have, the " I can't go back to us" is so not about us but about their internal struggles. But d@mn it hurts!!
The more work I do on myself to discover my old wounds, the more I'm able to not " accept" the negative things that H has said about me and our M. I am far from perfect- but as UR said somewhere- we did the best we could with the tools and resources we had at the time.
NY sounds awesome- I might have to put that on my list for a girls trip!!
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown