DayOne, you haven't been on the boards long enough to realize the wisdom of both MrBond and 25years. They may say some things you don't want to face yet, but if you stick around and try to absorb instead of lash out, I think you'll be glad. You are very defensive right now, that's understandable. You are going through something very hard. Believe me, we all get that. But you came here for help, and you would do well to recognize it when it's being offered.
I was exactly the same way when I joined this board 3 months ago.
The epiphany comes when one decides that their desire to understand is greater than their desire to be understood.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
