Originally Posted By: Ahoy

Also, does he dream about me? (I KNOW no one can answer this -- it's rhetorical.) I dream about him constantly still, much to my chagrin.



Hi Ahoy- I have a theory about why we dream about the WAS (I do every once in awhile, and when I do its pretty intense). I think we spend so much time right now GAL, doing 180s and being positive, that our mind still has to work through a lot of the negative stuff about our spouses and it forces us to do it whil we are sleeping. I personally have had to push aside a lot of stuff(betryal, etc)just to be able to function and stay upbeat around my girls. I guess it has to come out sometime.

Do they dream about us? I bet they do. You can't make that kind of massive life change without some deep thought- and they are clearly not doing that during their waking hours :-)


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