One question I have never gotten a good answer with my W is, if you know how to "fix" this issue (make sure you are having sex more often, which not only is what he wants but is shown to usually increase your satisfaction and desire as well), then why not do it? It is like knowing you need to lose weight to save you marriage and still eating pizza and ice cream, right? Except in this case instead of having to eat celery all day you get to have lots of sex? Why wouldn't you want to do this???
My theory with my W is that this has become "her thing" just like me wanting more is "mine". But why I still don't understand, I would be interested in your thoughts, might help me understand better.
CB
That's a good question CB and I really can't answer it. We also need to lose weight and know we need to, but we don't do anything about it...except buy more cookies! I also know very well that if I consume less carbs my pmdd (think extreme pms) isn't as bad and I don't get as moody, depressed, etc. You would think that I would stay away from carbs! I even KNOW I feel better physically and mentally when I do, but I still get sucked back into carb snacking/overload. These, I think, are things that each individual needs to process and figure out. Sorry I don't have an answer...but thanks for making me think more on it.
