I'm sorry you didn't attend the concert. You "assumed" that your h might want to go since the performer/singer was someone you both liked. In MLC land, we can't "assume" that things will be the same and "expect" them to want to do things w/us. Yes, you were trying to be a friend and get tickets and when he declined, you were disappointed.
BTW, in MLC land, their tastes in everything change. So, this performer may not be someone he's interested in at the moment. Always keep in mind that they become the mirror image, i.e., opposite of the person that they once were.
Expectations have a way of disappointing us at times w/MLCers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
