Jim, I'm no vet so I can't really offer you much more advice than the others have, but one thing I will say is that the reason you probably don't see many stories of success in marriages being restored is that most people who come here for help, then end up restoring their M generally wouldn't come back afterwards..
Not saying everyone is like that, and there are examples here of those who have done it, and continue helping others, but the general population probably wouldn't bother as their M is back in shape and more than likely don't want their H or W to know their secret..
That's my thought anyway..
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..