3 months after BD, the roller coaster ride hurts

[devotee]

It's hard not to fall into the lovey dovey comfortable pit when times are good. We both went to MC today and it was pretty brutal. He did commit to going with me for 8 weeks. We're going to try and slow things down and communicate better. He may also try IC. My IC has been immensely helpful to me.
We just got back from a bike ride. We're just hanging out and remaining calm. I work tomorrow daytime and we have a planned datenight. Sat night I have a concert I'm going to with friends. Just trying to keep a nice balance.