Ive read so many of the other threads on here and can really see that making a difference to myself is the way to go. Its a shame I've not found more threads where the marriage has been restored through the efforts of the LBS.
Its hard as I feel my world and heart has been ripped out. Just before this blew up we were cuddling up together, making plans for the future and she would tell me how she couldn't sleep unless I was there.
The change is just hard to take. She is just so cold and determined to divorce as quickly as possible and be 'rid of me'. She takes every opportunity to remind me she is leaving and seems laser focused on making the arrangements (she's viewing new houses to move out to next week). Our D3 told her to hug me and she looked repulsed by the idea.
She says that there is no love left for me at all and her behaviour backs this up its just hard to believe - I don't want to believe it.
I need to detach from my old M and move on. I just hope its to a new and amazing R with the woman who has left me. Id like to keep the gap and hurt to a minimum is all.
As the WAW video says - she's given me the kick I need to be the man she always wanted. I just need to make those changes and help her to see
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
