just perusing the forum .. stopping off here, there ... when this thought occured to me. The 'quest' for intimacy continues. What should I tell h in a case like this? Back off? (very tempting)
It's typical I suppose - the mlcer wants sitch to be a certain way without confronting the issues. H suggests that he doesn't 'get it', how I changed (really?! after all that's been going on?)
I am wondering how to approach this without engaging in the 'suicidal' 'R' talk - or should I just leave it?
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017
