Do I walk away from WAW? (1)

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Ugh, bit of a slip up. I snooped. My W posts on a private message board for this broad group of friends, women only, several of whom are also old friends of mine. She's on it all the time. She left herself logged in and I glanced at a thread she had made about our sitch. I only read her most recent post before getting the awful feeling that I was of course going to get. She posted that she noticed my change in mood and positivity, that I was working out and getting active on the job front, all of which indicate to her that I've accepted things and am moving on. (BD date was six weeks ago. Wow.) She also said that she suspected that I was seeing someone. Which is....nuts. I've spent a total of two nights out of the house the last two weeks, both dinner dates with male friends. No idea how she would get this impression but I guess it's not a bad thing. She also said she was "hoarding her paychecks".

The most irritating thing to me is she wrote that I "called her BFF and talked for an hour." Her BFF called ME, to tell me how impressed she was with how I handled things with her partner (and my wife's ex-AP) at our encounter earlier that day. And spent the next hour asking me questions about W, which I mostly declined to answer, as I don't trust her to keep anything confidential. And apparently, she then told my W about our convo and that I had called HER. Feels like I can't win with these people.

Going back into major detach more here. Losing sanity. When will this end.